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Krystalkisses

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Negro Bed Wench Mentality



I came across this podcast and honestly am just now realising this is a thing. Just wanted to share. I feel like I understand why black dudes treated me the way they did growing up now when I listen to this. Wow. Thoughts? Please be respectful.
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Reply #1 posted 05/15/19 10:43am

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1st the image he used is of a 'mulatta'

This is a way of controlling black women and trying to claim mixed/biracial women, so they have sex with 'part white/asian' women while still saying they are black(1 Drop rule)

These same guys tend to be the first to intermix with white women or mixed women.

The women the master 'bedded' never got treated the same as his wife.

All of this race politics to control people, especially black women, and mixed/biracial people.

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A Liar Shall Not Tarry In My Presence

What's the matter with your life
Is poverty bringing U down?
Is the mailman jerking U 'round?
Did he put your million dollar check
In someone else's box?
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Reply #2 posted 05/15/19 11:06am

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Interesting..this writer from Ebony kinda said this same thing in her retort here:

https://www.ebony.com/new...lease-405/
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Reply #3 posted 05/15/19 11:20am

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Krystalkisses said:

Interesting..this writer from Ebony kinda said this same thing in her retort here: https://www.ebony.com/new...lease-405/

Yeah a bunch of 'woke' brotha's trying to lead the black and 'multiracial' masses

Black Israelites and pseudo-Imoteps all rising up with a word of caution

'bed wench' is a term that is worldwide though. originating in Europe especially northern Europe of a woman trying to better herself by 'selling out' with the enemy or the other nation etc

I suspect other ethnicities of men in America used it toward 'their' women too, like 'ni&&er lover' etc Control tactics.

#IDEFINEME #ALBUMSSTILLMATTER

A Liar Shall Not Tarry In My Presence

What's the matter with your life
Is poverty bringing U down?
Is the mailman jerking U 'round?
Did he put your million dollar check
In someone else's box?
Tell me, what's the m
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Reply #4 posted 05/15/19 11:20am

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Krystalkisses said:

I came across this podcast and honestly am just now realising this is a thing. Just wanted to share. I feel like I understand why black dudes treated me the way they did growing up now when I listen to this. Wow. Thoughts? Please be respectful.

How did they treat you?

#IDEFINEME #ALBUMSSTILLMATTER

A Liar Shall Not Tarry In My Presence

What's the matter with your life
Is poverty bringing U down?
Is the mailman jerking U 'round?
Did he put your million dollar check
In someone else's box?
Tell me, what's the m
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Reply #5 posted 05/15/19 11:37am

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OldFriends4Sale said:



Krystalkisses said:


I came across this podcast and honestly am just now realising this is a thing. Just wanted to share. I feel like I understand why black dudes treated me the way they did growing up now when I listen to this. Wow. Thoughts? Please be respectful.



How did they treat you?



Well I never would want to group all of them together, some were nice but I always felt like when they found out I was part black they treated me differently. I mean growing up they used to make fun of me for saying please and thank you to the lunch lady in school , as if being articulate and polite was corny and "acting white". And I just felt like in high school they were talking shit like "She likes white dudes" and it is subtle but some were just like giving me judgemental looks and were short and snippy and I couldn't really understand why.

And my husband is white and my kids look totally white and I just feel like some of them side eye me but I'm like whatever. It's so hard to find a good guy nowadays for most women, a guy who is faithful and hardworking, I think black and bi racial women really broaden their dating horizons because it is so hard for people to find love some times, this black guy on this podcast actually really offended me because I so think maybe subconsciously trying to cockblock black women in a way , ( Sorry for lack of a better term). Overall I am really concerned for U.S. race relations today.
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Reply #6 posted 05/15/19 12:14pm

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OldFriends4Sale said:



Krystalkisses said:


Interesting..this writer from Ebony kinda said this same thing in her retort here: https://www.ebony.com/new...lease-405/


Yeah a bunch of 'woke' brotha's trying to lead the black and 'multiracial' masses



Black Israelites and pseudo-Imoteps all rising up with a word of caution



'bed wench' is a term that is worldwide though. originating in Europe especially northern Europe of a woman trying to better herself by 'selling out' with the enemy or the other nation etc



I suspect other ethnicities of men in America used it toward 'their' women too, like 'ni&&er lover' etc Control tactics.





Gotta love his reasoning too for black guys who date outside their race still have their "blackness" but a sista who dates a white man adopts his ideology and rejects her identity.
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Reply #7 posted 05/15/19 12:21pm

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Krystalkisses said:

OldFriends4Sale said:



Krystalkisses said:


I came across this podcast and honestly am just now realising this is a thing. Just wanted to share. I feel like I understand why black dudes treated me the way they did growing up now when I listen to this. Wow. Thoughts? Please be respectful.



How did they treat you?



Well I never would want to group all of them together, some were nice but I always felt like when they found out I was part black they treated me differently. I mean growing up they used to make fun of me for saying please and thank you to the lunch lady in school , as if being articulate and polite was corny and "acting white". And I just felt like in high school they were talking shit like "She likes white dudes" and it is subtle but some were just like giving me judgemental looks and were short and snippy and I couldn't really understand why.

And my husband is white and my kids look totally white and I just feel like some of them side eye me but I'm like whatever. It's so hard to find a good guy nowadays for most women, a guy who is faithful and hardworking, I think black and bi racial women really broaden their dating horizons because it is so hard for people to find love some times, this black guy on this podcast actually really offended me because I so think maybe subconsciously trying to cockblock black women in a way , ( Sorry for lack of a better term). Overall I am really concerned for U.S. race relations today.


US race relations no better or worse than they have ever been

The downside of the modern world is that any idiot can get on the web or have a podcast
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Reply #8 posted 05/15/19 2:07pm

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I'd say take this over to LSA, you might be surprised by the responses you get. Basically nobody's got time for that bs.
Year of Return 2019
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Reply #9 posted 05/15/19 3:11pm

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Krystalkisses said:
Well I never would want to group all of them together, some were nice but I always felt like when they found out I was part black they treated me differently. I mean growing up they used to make fun of me for saying please and thank you to the lunch lady in school , as if being articulate and polite was corny and "acting white". And I just felt like in high school they were talking shit like "She likes white dudes" and it is subtle but some were just like giving me judgemental looks and were short and snippy and I couldn't really understand why. And my husband is white and my kids look totally white and I just feel like some of them side eye me but I'm like whatever. It's so hard to find a good guy nowadays for most women, a guy who is faithful and hardworking, I think black and bi racial women really broaden their dating horizons because it is so hard for people to find love some times, this black guy on this podcast actually really offended me because I so think maybe subconsciously trying to cockblock black women in a way , ( Sorry for lack of a better term). Overall I am really concerned for U.S. race relations today.
US race relations no better or worse than they have ever been The downside of the modern world is that any idiot can get on the web or have a podcast

....and there are idiots who listen to the podcasts and take that nonsense seriously.

Reminds me of the ugly comments directed at Serena Williams by these fake-ass brothas. But you don't hear shit from these fools about black male athletes/entertainers who date or marry outside their group.

Your comments about US race relations are right on the money. Like I've said in the past, the laws have changed, opportunities are better, but most humans are just as fucked up as they were when I was growing up during the civil rights era. I really don't care, as long as these racist mfers obey the law and not mess with anyone.

One thing some black folks really need to do is stop looking for 'acceptance' from whites or other groups. I HATE that word, because it implies one group is above another. We don't anyone's stamp of approval to validate us as human beings. That shit annoys the hell out of me.

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Reply #10 posted 05/16/19 5:13am

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Krystalkisses said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

Yeah a bunch of 'woke' brotha's trying to lead the black and 'multiracial' masses

Black Israelites and pseudo-Imoteps all rising up with a word of caution

'bed wench' is a term that is worldwide though. originating in Europe especially northern Europe of a woman trying to better herself by 'selling out' with the enemy or the other nation etc

I suspect other ethnicities of men in America used it toward 'their' women too, like 'ni&&er lover' etc Control tactics.

Gotta love his reasoning too for black guys who date outside their race still have their "blackness" but a sista who dates a white man adopts his ideology and rejects her identity.

A very popular scene in the movie I'm Gonna Get You Sucka, the pro-Black (Prince's father from Purple Rain lol) and his white wife and his 'mulatto' children(who are actually white lol)

This is a well known 'scene' in America

#IDEFINEME #ALBUMSSTILLMATTER

A Liar Shall Not Tarry In My Presence

What's the matter with your life
Is poverty bringing U down?
Is the mailman jerking U 'round?
Did he put your million dollar check
In someone else's box?
Tell me, what's the m
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Reply #11 posted 05/16/19 6:41am

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Krystalkisses said:

I came across this podcast and honestly am just now realising this is a thing. Just wanted to share. I feel like I understand why black dudes treated me the way they did growing up now when I listen to this. Wow. Thoughts? Please be respectful.


Honestly, I could barely get through a few minutes of this. I hate the kind of delivery this guy has, where we are supposed to hang on his every carefully paused word as if it's cannon. I agree with jj that any jerk can have a podcast now and pretend they are some kind of expert. Questionable historical commentary, and extremely unhelpful in today's world. Thumbs down.

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Reply #12 posted 05/16/19 3:06pm

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OldFriends4Sale said:



Krystalkisses said:


OldFriends4Sale said:



Yeah a bunch of 'woke' brotha's trying to lead the black and 'multiracial' masses



Black Israelites and pseudo-Imoteps all rising up with a word of caution



'bed wench' is a term that is worldwide though. originating in Europe especially northern Europe of a woman trying to better herself by 'selling out' with the enemy or the other nation etc



I suspect other ethnicities of men in America used it toward 'their' women too, like 'ni&&er lover' etc Control tactics.





Gotta love his reasoning too for black guys who date outside their race still have their "blackness" but a sista who dates a white man adopts his ideology and rejects her identity.



A very popular scene in the movie I'm Gonna Get You Sucka, the pro-Black (Prince's father from Purple Rain lol) and his white wife and his 'mulatto' children(who are actually white lol)

This is a well known 'scene' in America



















lol I guess it is kinda funny because there is some truth to it and I've seen real world examples.
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Reply #13 posted 05/16/19 3:09pm

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poppys said:



Krystalkisses said:


I came across this podcast and honestly am just now realising this is a thing. Just wanted to share. I feel like I understand why black dudes treated me the way they did growing up now when I listen to this. Wow. Thoughts? Please be respectful.



Honestly, I could barely get through a few minutes of this. I hate the kind of delivery this guy has, where we are supposed to hang on his every carefully paused word as if it's cannon. I agree with jj that any jerk can have a podcast now and pretend they are some kind of expert. Questionable historical commentary, and extremely unhelpful in today's world. Thumbs down.



Haha I know right , like he is in control and he's gonna let us know what's what. There are lots of dudes out there like that though.
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Reply #14 posted 05/16/19 6:53pm

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Krystalkisses said:

poppys said:


Honestly, I could barely get through a few minutes of this. I hate the kind of delivery this guy has, where we are supposed to hang on his every carefully paused word as if it's cannon. I agree with jj that any jerk can have a podcast now and pretend they are some kind of expert. Questionable historical commentary, and extremely unhelpful in today's world. Thumbs down.


Haha I know right , like he is in control and he's gonna let us know what's what. There are lots of dudes out there like that though.


Yes there are. And nobody should be telling anyone who they should or shouldn't love. Or shaming them. That's their control issues talking.

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Reply #15 posted 05/16/19 8:23pm

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poppys said:



Krystalkisses said:


poppys said:



Honestly, I could barely get through a few minutes of this. I hate the kind of delivery this guy has, where we are supposed to hang on his every carefully paused word as if it's cannon. I agree with jj that any jerk can have a podcast now and pretend they are some kind of expert. Questionable historical commentary, and extremely unhelpful in today's world. Thumbs down.




Haha I know right , like he is in control and he's gonna let us know what's what. There are lots of dudes out there like that though.


Yes there are. And nobody should be telling anyone who they should or shouldn't love. Or shaming them. That's their control issues talking.



Absolutely, I agree , as if they even have a say in who someone is with .
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