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Thread started 03/20/19 3:44pm

fred12

Trying to get female!!!

Long story short, this particular female whom I have been trying to get up with, ask out on date, and get to know etc., feels like she was trying to get to know me..well, i have a female friend, just friends, who I am cool with and we hang out..nothing sexual or nothing like that..me and the friend have seen the female in particular who I like and she probably thought we're an item, but not!! So one particular day I was with a guy buddy of mine and the female in particular comes and sits right beside me and asks me where's my girlfriend or don't you have one?. and she continues to talk and laugh with me..so question males and females, was she making herself available to me? Was she trying to see what I'd do if she came over? or, was she just been friendly? Mind you she has never been close up on me like that. we just speak and say hello in passing..Am i reading too much into it?

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Reply #1 posted 03/20/19 4:44pm

EmmaMcG

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It's impossible for anyone but her to say what her intentions were but it just sounds like she was just being nice.

But why don't you ask her out? You're single so if she's also single then what's the problem? The worst that could happen is that she'd say no. That's no big deal. I'm married now (nearly 2 months) but back when I was single, it would really piss me off when I knew a guy (or girl, because I'm not fussy) was interested in me but never said anything. What's the point in staying silent about it? As things stand, you're not with her but you want to be. So the worst that can come of asking her out is that you'll be in the same position as you are now. But, she might say yes. In which case, you're up on the deal. It's a no-lose situation. So go for it.
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Reply #2 posted 03/20/19 7:30pm

onlyforaminute

She'll lose interest in the time it takes to get answers from the org.
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Reply #3 posted 03/20/19 9:59pm

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How old are you? hmmm

All those questions you are asking us........... ask her.



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Reply #4 posted 03/21/19 6:14am

RodeoSchro

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LOL, yeah - what luv4u said. Ask her out. If she says "Yes" then treat her like a lady. If she says "No" then respect that and move on.

P.S.: You are not trying to "get female!!!" You're trying to see if a young lady is interested in you. Just put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself what her reaction would be if she read this thread.

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Reply #5 posted 03/21/19 11:01am

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Not calling her a "female" might be a good start.

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Reply #6 posted 03/21/19 11:30am

EmmaMcG

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StrangeButTrue said:

Not calling her a "female" might be a good start.



Maybe Fred12 is not from earth and that's just how his people talk. His parental units obviously never taught him how to communicate with the females. But all he needs to do is ask her to accompany him to the nearest eatery for the consumption of mass quantities. No need to overcomplicate things.
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Reply #7 posted 03/21/19 12:51pm

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Well in that case, it seems most effective to try to impersonate the average human male. I'd suggest glasses with a large plastic nose and a moustache, a cigarette, and a cheap suit.

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Or possibly an eye-catching piece of apparel that will attract your mate, such as:

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Reply #8 posted 03/21/19 1:30pm

S2DG

So glad to be done with this thought process now that I'm OAF (old as fuck).

Can't believe how much energy I wasted on "wondering", it's part of life I guess.

Fred just ask her directly and be nice about it. It's not the same as being pushy if you're genuine and think she may be interested.

If she says "No, I don't feel that way about you" then apologize for misreading the situation and move on, this is what friends do.

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Reply #9 posted 03/21/19 4:09pm

onlyforaminute

StrangeButTrue said:

Well in that case, it seems most effective to try to impersonate the average human male. I'd suggest glasses with a large plastic nose and a moustache, a cigarette, and a cheap suit.

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giphy.gif?cid=3640f6095c93ea723259454a4dd95f11

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Or possibly an eye-catching piece of apparel that will attract your mate, such as:

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FBI52456-BLACK-AT.jpg?1465465529

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Would love to be a fly on that wall.

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Reply #10 posted 03/21/19 5:08pm

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Trying to get a female. lol Sorry, but reading that title, I imagine that's what a caveman would write if he could type.

But to answer your question(s). Just ask her out and be respectful about it, wether she says yes or no.

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Reply #11 posted 03/22/19 9:56am

poppys

Lol, I thought it was a sex change thread from the title.

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Reply #12 posted 03/22/19 12:01pm

NorthC

^Same here. biggrin
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Reply #13 posted 03/22/19 12:39pm

RodeoSchro

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^ Ditto!

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Reply #14 posted 03/22/19 4:21pm

poppys

Lol, I thought it was a sex change thread from the title.
^Same here.

^ Ditto!

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Reply #15 posted 03/23/19 12:37am

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My first thought was, hmmm she suddenly got interested after she saw you with another girl. Interesting. It was after that she approached you and chatted you up. Seems like a classic case of whatever you call it when members of the opposite sex find someone appealing when they are already "taken". I have had friends and family members tell me they couldn't get a date no matter how hard they tried - until they were in a comitted relationship and suddenly they had all kinds of possible suitors and/or folks interested in dating them.
Anyway, sounds like she's interested in you either way regardless of the above. So ask her out. Good luck!
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Reply #16 posted 03/23/19 8:59am

TheTruth123

poppys said:

Lol, I thought it was a sex change thread from the title.

Me too smile

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Reply #17 posted 03/23/19 9:01am

TheTruth123

Of course she was trying to get close to you.

Her reason? I don't know.

But she seems pretty fast moving, so I would either get away from her (best option for protection) or get to know her slowly to see what she really wants from you.

Either way, you'll learn something.

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Reply #18 posted 03/28/19 7:14am

rocketjimm

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The worst thing is the fear of not hearing. But there is nothing terrible in it, tell the truth !!! Maybe this will help you?

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Reply #19 posted 03/28/19 8:02am

RodeoSchro

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Well, Fred - it's been more than a week. Did you ever get female?

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Reply #20 posted 03/28/19 8:32am

TheFman

RodeoSchro said:

Well, Fred - it's been more than a week. Did you ever get female?

or a sex change?

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Reply #21 posted 03/28/19 8:50am

RodeoSchro

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TheFman said:

RodeoSchro said:

Well, Fred - it's been more than a week. Did you ever get female?

or a sex change?



It's so ambiguous, isn't it?

My biggest worry is that the only answer I'll get from Fred is "Yes", which is really no answer at all, LOL.

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